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Why True Education?
Why should we as Seventh-day Adventist families seek out and strive to follow the principles of True Education? First and foremost, because it follows the principles laid out in the Bible. The Bible is our sure and safe guide for educating our children. We can never go wrong if we choose to make the Bible the foundation of our homeschooling efforts. Those same ideals are amplified in the Spirit of Prophecy.
A secular educational program has individual achievement and acclaim as its goal. True Education seeks to lead our children’s hearts and minds to higher, more eternal ideals. Why settle for an education that allows a child to “…gain the whole world but lose his own soul” (Mark 8:36)?
True Education is education for the whole person. It develops not only the intellectual faculties, but also the physical and spiritual parts as well. Don’t we want our children to be fully developed in all areas of their lives? As you seek to follow the principles of True Education, it will quickly become clear that it is not simply a philosophy or curriculum, it is a way of life that will deeply enrich all aspects of your family life.
Suggested reading to learn more about True Education- available free online:
Education
Child Guidance
Fundamentals of Christian Education
Your Child’s First Textbook
“Come, ye children, hearken unto me: I will teach you the fear of the LORD.” Ps. 34:11
The very first textbook to be used for the education of our children is the Bible. Day by day, we are to use the Bible to lead our children to Christ. We are to begin with short lessons, simplified so as to be easily understood. “In these simple stories may be made plain the great principles of the law of God.” Education, 185. Our goal is to direct to our children the commandments of God as standard for living, to teach them to use the Bible as a guide for life. As we use the Bible to introduce our children to God, they will be introduced to His character and their characters will be influenced as a result.
How should we teach our children? The pen of inspiration gives us guidance in creative ways to teach Bible lessons to our children. “ The use of object lessons, blackboards, maps, and pictures, will be an aid in explaining these lessons, and fixing them in the memory. Parents and teachers should constantly seek for improved methods. The teaching of the Bible should have our freshest thought, our best methods, and our most earnest effort.” Education, 186.
Let us renew our energies to consistently present to our children the most important lessons they will ever learn.
Curriculum Reviews
With the abundance of curriculum available to us, it is often hard to know with reading the little snippets from catalogs or websites… if a particular curriculum will work for you and your child. Also, you may wonder what the materials present from a religious standpoint. Sometimes products sound good, but are a lot more work than you realized. Purchasing items that won’t work for you can be costly.
In the curriculum reviews, we share items that have worked well with following True Education principles. We share details, when we can, that will help you see if this curriculum is going to be a good fit for you and your child. Click the AHE logo below and you will be taken directly to the Curriculum Reviews page on the Adventist Home Educator website.
Dealing With Negative Reactions
We are a homeschooling family. That statement will evoke a variety of responses from family, friends and even strangers. Many people will be happy and supportive of your choice, but others will immediately respond with criticism and negative comments. How do you deal with the negative reactions and comments? Here are a few thoughts to keep in mind.
Keep it Simple. You do not have to give a detailed summary of how you came to choose homeschooling. You do not have to support your decision with the latest research or long quotes. The choice to homeschool is private family business and it is not rude to keep it as such. A simple “After much thought and prayer, we are homeschooling our children.” is a perfectly sufficient response. Do not feel obligated to share more if you don’t want to do so. 
Keep Motives in Mind. It is helpful to consider why the person is being negative. Is the person doubting your ability to homeschool? Are they concerned about the financial impact of one parent staying home? Is it jealousy or plain curiosity? Is the family member concerned about what others will think? Does the person just want to understand homeschooling more clearly? When you consider the motivation behind negative comments, it helps not take them so personally.
Remain Positive. You are happy with your choice, and leave it at that. Don’t make negative comments about the local church school or public school. That invites negativity towards your choice. It also invites the temptation to gossip or spread rumors. It is better to leave the local church school or public school out of your response. How can you expect to gain support of a public school parent if you are denigrating their choice?
Agree to Disagree. You may come across someone who is set in his/her mind against homeschooling and has no intention of changing his/her opinion. That person may even share the latest homeschooling horror story that’s in the news to bolster his/her opinion. That’s okay. Breathe deeply, send up a quick prayer, smile and let those comments float away. Don’t engage in debates or arguments because there will be no winners. You have more to lose than to gain by letting a conversation become heated. Diffuse a potential argument by stating that you agree to disagree. Then change the subject or leave the conversation completely.
Let time bear witness to your prayerful efforts of homeschooling your children. As you strive to follow the True Education principles laid out in the Bible and Spirit of Prophecy, the blessings of your work will become evident to all. God will honor your efforts to be a homeschooling household of faith for Him.
The Very Best Curriculum Ever – Part 2
Curriculum developers are excellent in marketing, and homeschool parents are a wide open market for their wares. Wanting only the best for their children, homeschool parents are willing consumers of these goods. But, remembering that less is more and to keep it simple are concepts that are worth considering. A successful homeschool curriculum does not depend upon a plethora of textbooks and copy work. Instead, a few simple tools and a daily routine can go a long way in establishing a homeschool curriculum that is custom designed for each child in your family.
When shopping for your homeschool curriculum and resources keep in mind the counsel we’ve been given.
“During the first six or seven years of a child’s life, special attention should be given to physical training, rather than intellect… Up to this period children should be left, like little lambs, to roam around the house and in the yards, in the buoyancy of their spirits, skipping and jumping, free from care and trouble.” Child Guidance, p. 300
“For the first eight or ten years of a child’s life the field or garden is the best schoolroom, the mother the best teacher, nature the best lesson book.” Education, p. 208
In light of this, buying expensive homeschooling materials for your little ones really isn’t necessary. Does that mean that you’re not to teach them anything? Not at all! Let’s look at a few ways to cover the basic subjects in a relaxed, yet effective way.
*Bible – Starting the day with family worship sets the tone for a successful day. Beginning a habit of daily devotions with your children will develop into their own devotions as they grow older. Study the Sabbath School lesson. Read through The Bible Story books. Listen to The Bible in Living Sound. Start a prayer, praise & thankfulness journal. Sing songs of praise. Read stories that will help develop good character traits in your children. Memorize Bible verses.
*Reading – Start reading aloud to your children when they are very young and never stop. Children of all ages, even teens, enjoy listening to stories read aloud. It’s a wonderful opportunity for quality family time. Read Bible stories, nature stories, history books, biographies, human interest stories, poems and anything else your children find interesting.
As children start to grow, show them sounds, words, letters, etc. as you read. Have them share/read words, then sentences and paragraphs during your reading times together. When they are mature enough, find a simple, low pressure reading program. The program doesn’t need to be complicated or costly. Just take it slow. Children will learn to read in their own time. Right now your goal is to develop a love for reading so they will want to do it on their own.
*Nature & Science – We are told nature is God’s second book. Go for nature walks, and get fresh air and exercise daily. During your walks collect and identify wild flowers, plants, insects, trees, birds, etc. Record your discoveries in a nature notebook. Invest in some field guides. Read and learn about nature during your family reading time. Draw, paint and write about what you see in nature.
*Math – Preschool and elementary math can be taught by matching socks, counting items, and sorting them into groups. Teach fractions in the kitchen by cutting apples, oranges, or pies, measuring ingredients. Learn measurement in Dad’s wood shop measuring, cutting and building. Use number lines to learn to add and subtract in a visual way. Toy cars can travel along the line for so many miles, then drive back so many more to find totals and differences. Use flash cards and addition and subtraction practice sheets to help them learn their math facts. Do short timed drills. As they mature and gain understanding add an occasional math workbook page if the children enjoy them.
Middle school and high school math will require a textbook, but don’t eliminate drill and parental time. Give opportunity for drill and review; not going at too fast a pace. Learn for mastery.
*History, Geography, Social Studies, Language Arts – These subjects can be implemented through the above activities and through the unit study method below. It’s so easy to incorporate them into unit studies and family reading time. Purchase a good English handbook to help guide you in introducing proper grammar, and correct punctuation and capitalization. Invest in a spelling program that grows with the student and will cover several grade levels. Find free spelling lists and games online.
*Unit Studies – The easiest way to learn is by combining all the subject areas while learning one topic. This is called a unit study. Always have a unit study going as a part of the school day. For example, if a child is interested in airplanes read stories about flight (the Wright brothers, mission pilots, early air mail flights, WW II pilots; etc.). Research in books and online about types of planes. Go to the airport and identify planes. Draw planes and cross-section views of their mechanical parts. Analyze differences in the time it takes to drive or fly to the same destination and chart routes. Build model airplanes. Write or dictate a story about a plane and/or pilot. Take advantage of free airplane rides offered by many private pilot clubs. Take pictures of planes and make a scrapbook or write a story. Journal about planes. Buy magazines about planes and have child read aloud to siblings. See if a private pilot needs help maintaining a plane (washing, checking tires, etc.). Go to a flight museum or an air show. Get a book about making paper airplanes and try making different kinds. Compare and contrast their flights for speed, distance, and acrobatic skills. Develop a rating chart. Go with the flow and what your child shows an interest in. Do you get the idea? Every subject that interests your family can be studied in this manner!
Don’t forget two other important aspects of your custom designed homeschool curriculum.
*Work – It’s important for children to learn that in a family we all have responsibilities that help the household run smoothly. Assign each child household chores that are appropriate for their age and ability. Teach them gently and thoroughly how to complete their tasks. Show the older children how to help the younger ones.
*Service – Your children will benefit immensely from learning to put others first through service activities. Start first by looking for service opportunities in your own home. Find ways to serve one another, grandparents, and other family members. Then branch out to serving others in your neighborhood, church, and community.
As your children grow and mature you can add an appropriate textbook here and there where necessary. A well-rounded combination of unit studies, a few carefully chosen textbooks, reading individually and aloud as a family, a computer and a good library for research, hobbies, nature study, and family worship will prove to be the very best curriculum available for your homeschooling family.
The Very Best Curriculum Ever- Part 1
If you have ever been to a homeschool curriculum fair or browsed through a homeschool supply catalog you know how confusing it can be to make a decision on what curriculum you are going to buy. There are so many choices available. They all look so good, yet they are all so different. You may have asked homeschooling friends for their recommendations, only to discover what worked for them doesn’t appeal to you at all. You wonder how in the world you’re going to make the best choices for your family.
First you need to take a few things into consideration:
• Your own personality and teaching style – Are you organized and creative? Are your children
disciplined and motivated? If so, unit studies may be a perfect fit. If not, you may need the extra help of a more structured program at the beginning.
• Your home situation – Are you a single parent? Is Dad going to stay home and teach while Mom
becomes the breadwinner? Are you on a tight budget? Maybe your family is sailing around the world
this year and you’re homeschooling on the go. Homeschooling families are a very diverse bunch.
Whatever curriculum you choose needs to fit your lifestyle. Don’t settle for the most popular or cleverly packaged materials that you see. Ask yourself, “Will this realistically work in our situation?”
• Your children’s learning styles – Hands-on, or kinesthetic learners need to experience learning by
touching, feeling and doing. They need to manipulate objects with their hands. Unit studies can be ideal for these children. Auditory learners need to hear information. Reading and explaining things to them is helpful. Audio CD’s of math facts, history, states and capitals, the Bible and more can all be
implemented. Visual learners need to see in order to grasp a concept. They love illustrations, charts,
books, and flash cards. They can be easily distracted by the things they see around them. They love to read, write and draw pictures.
• Your goals and philosophy of education – Where is God leading you? What is your reason for
homeschooling? How long do you plan to homeschool? Are you just planning to homeschool for a year
or two, or is homeschooling a lifestyle and long-term commitment for your family? The answers to these questions will help you decide which resources are right for you.
I know this is not what most new homeschoolers want to hear, but no one can tell you to go out and buy XYZ curriculum and use it. Each family is different and unique in their own ways. The resources that work for one family may not work at all for another. The books you used with one child may not be what’s best for the next. What you start out using in the beginning will more than likely not be what you’re using a few years down the line. As you gain experience and confidence you will settle in with the materials that work, throw out the ones that don’t, and replace them with ones that are a good fit for your family.
Don’t worry. Your children won’t suffer because you didn’t follow the same structured curriculum program, purchased from the same publisher for their entire homeschooling experience. They will learn much more over the years if you use resources that were hand-picked to meet the unique needs of you and your family. Prov. 3:5-6 tell us, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.” Remember, the Holy Spirit will guide you in choosing the right homeschooling resources for your family. All you need to do is ask.
Why Do You Homeschool?
At this time of year the back-to-school bug is in the air and has bitten many of us. Whether or not we’re sending our kids away to school or homeschooling, there’s just something about this time of year that makes us excited about school. That makes this an excellent time to stop and jot down why we homeschool. If we take the time to do this, when the going gets tough—and I guarantee it will, it always does—we can look at our notes and remind ourselves that we actually had a reason to homeschool.
So why did you choose homeschool? There are scores of reasons and combinations of reasons why people homeschool. Here are a few:
- You’ve just always wanted to homeschool.
- Your children have disabilities or they are very advanced, either one.
- You just like being with your children all day long.
- The peer pressure of the school environment would hurt your children.
- The graded system concerns you.
- Socialization! You want your kids to socialize with more than kids their own age. (I just had to throw that one in there, since I think homeschool kids are very well socialized!)
- The teacher that your child would be assigned to is less than desirable to you.
- The nearest church school is not within a reasonable commute.
- You don’t have the finances to pay tuition at the church school.
- The church school is a disappointment in some way, whether academically, spiritually or another way.
- You believe in child directed learning.
- You know somebody else who homeschools and you’d like to emulate them or their family.
- You think homeschooling is academically superior to any other choice.
- Your family travels a lot or are missionaries and homeschooling just fits your lifestyle.
- You believe that homeschooling will give you a better chance at preparing your children for heaven.
- You believe in delayed learning so your homeschooling for the first few years until you think your child is ready for school.
- Maybe you just got bit by the homeschooling bug, and thought you’d give it a try.
Of course, there are dozens of more reasons why people homeschool. What are your reasons for homeschooling? It’s good to think through. If circumstances changed would you choose another form of education for your children? Are you going to homeschool through second grade, eighth grade, twelfth grade, college or are you just going to take it year by year? These are all things to consider when thinking through your reasons to homeschool. That way when you have challenging days, and you’re wondering if you should keep on going, you can fairly evaluate why it was that you started down this path; and if you choose a different path, you will know why your changing course too.
Ultimately it comes back down to, what is your philosophy of education? Is homeschooling part of your philosophy? So review the recent posts about philosophy of education and think through why you homeschool and what your philosophy of education is and then save all of this information either on your computer or in a diary or somewhere where you can find it later, because there will come a day or maybe several days, when reviewing it might be what you need to make it through the day.



